Ling has drunk tea since childhood. She grew up in Hunan, where she drank tea with her grandmother and also had some contact with tea making. At the time, tea was simply part of life and required no special explanation. Her family drank it, the people around her drank it, and it was always there.
Many things are like this. When we grow up surrounded by something, we do not necessarily recognise what makes it special.
After graduating, Ling moved to Guangzhou and worked in foreign trade. Her company provided accommodation and meals, so her life was relatively settled and many daily arrangements were taken care of. In 2012, she began working at the Four Seasons Hotel Beijing.
Life in Beijing was different from life in Guangzhou. She had to find her own home, arrange her own meals, and manage many aspects of life outside work. During that period, she was also facing a decision about her future: should she move to Milan?
And if she went, what would she do there?
She felt that some kind of answer was beginning to emerge, although she could not yet grasp it clearly. It was also during this period that she began moving closer to tea in a more serious way.
At the Four Seasons Hotel Beijing, there was a teahouse opposite the department where she worked. She would often arrive early, talk with the tea professionals there, and drink tea with them. Gradually, she began brewing tea herself.
She still remembers one particular Shou Pu’er (熟普洱), or ripe Pu’er tea. There was no elaborate tea setting in the room and no especially formal method of brewing. The tea was placed in a glass, hot water was poured over it, and its flavour emerged. She took a sip and felt her whole body become still for a moment.
Tea, she said, was like a key.
She had once held a very broad ambition: she wanted to become someone who carried cultural and artistic traditions forward. But the idea was so vast that she did not know where to begin. At that moment, she began to feel that tea might offer a way.
“The taste of the tea—that sensory experience—seemed to open a door directly,” she recalled.
I remembered that description. Many years later, when she spoke about tea energy (茶气, cha qi), meditation, and changes she could feel in her body, I would think back to that Shou Pu’er. Her earliest understanding of tea did not come from books. It came from noticing a change in her own state.
But the opening of a door does not mean the road ahead immediately becomes clear.
In 2014, she applied for a position at the Four Seasons Hotel Milano. By then, tea had already found a place in the future she imagined, but she still did not know exactly what form it would take. A new city, a new language, and a new set of relationships lay ahead. Carrying the “key” she had only recently found, she took the first step.